不僅女人愛八卦，很多男人也都愛八卦，這是為什么呢？

    上海新東方泡泡少兒冬令營總結(jié)出幾點(diǎn)為什么人們愛八卦的原因，主要有三點(diǎn)：嫉妒、一爭高下還有精神麻木。下面我們來簡單了解下吧�。�

 jealousy
　嫉妒
　while boredom may be a cause of gossip, jealousy could also be a lesser known evil that leads to it. yes, if someone is envious of the car you own, or the lifestyle you lead, they may resort to talking ill about you, behind your back.
　　除了無聊會(huì)滋生八卦，嫉妒也是另一大惡因。的確，要是有人嫉妒你的車或你的生活方式，他們可能就會(huì)在背后詆毀你。

 to put others down
　一爭高下
　this happens especially in the workplace. yes, this is actually something a lot of people do. it is unethical and unprofessional, but to score brownie points with the boss, some mortals resort to loose talk and gossip about their colleagues who are doing well and may appear to be better workers than them.
　這種情況在工作場合尤為多見。而且實(shí)際上很多人都這么做。雖然不道德不光彩，但為了在上司面前表現(xiàn)好，有些“死對(duì)頭”還真會(huì)不積口德地詆毀優(yōu)秀同事，然后自己冠冕堂皇顯得更為能干。

insensitivity
　精神麻木
　being unaware of the hurt and angst back-biting may cause, people tend to talk freely about others and their flaws. this shows a complete lack of sensitivity and apathy. for the sake of small talk or short-lived amusement, some people simply do not care about the reputation of others.
　對(duì)傷痛和背后嚼舌的煩惱無知無覺的人，也會(huì)隨意談?wù)撍�人及他人的缺點(diǎn)。這也暴露了其為人的麻木冷淡。有些人只求片刻閑言碎語或開心，就一點(diǎn)也不顧及他人的顏面。